If we are learning how to train dogs, we are probably familiar with the method that encourages teaching new behaviors in an environment that isn’t distracting and then slowly starting to include distractions until the behavior becomes well grounded.
This method is one of the easiest ways to teach a dog something he will be able to perform regardless of distractions. Unfortunately, we can’t always control distractions - they are inevitable.
In fact, it’s unrealistic to wish for a distraction-free environment until the dog learns all we want to teach him.
One of the things that everyone who wants to become a positive dog trainer must learn is how to train their dogs to be tranquil and well mannered when there are new people in the house. We discuss skills such as staying on a mat, sitting for greeting, letting go, and making dogs less sensitive to the doorbell sound and knocking.
For the most effective results, we need to practice these skills with our dog in an environment that isn’t distracting before we work our way up to a highly distracting situation, such as real guests coming over. However, it’s highly likely that we will have visitors before we manage to train our dog fully.
Thus, it’s essential that we comprehend distraction levels and learn how to slowly add distraction to training. But, it is equally important to have a short-term plan for unplanned situations. Many people start feeling confused and guilty, and they aren’t sure how to behave when the real world takes charge, and their dog still isn’t fully trained to handle it.
That happens because, for many people, the gap between the teaching process and the result isn’t always clear.
When we feel like we are in over our heads, here is what can help:
Management
If we find ourselves in a situation that we cannot turn into a training opportunity, we should make a pause without feeling bad about it. For example, if a delivery guy is knocking on our front door, and we just need to sign the papers and get our package, that’s what we should do. It’s okay to distract our dog with a toy or put him in another room until the mailman goes away.
Or, if we are preparing dinner for a dinner party and our dog is lying next to our feet, we can skip the training session and crate the dog. Once a group of people fills the room, it’s totally fine to take the dog to our neighbor or crate him in the bedroom; that doesn’t mean that we are avoiding our training responsibility. On the contrary, it’s a smart move that will save both the dog and ourselves from unnecessary stress. That will, in turn, result in fewer mistakes and less inappropriate behavior.
Baby Steps
Ideally, when someone knocks on our door, we would want our dog to stay on his mat and wait for permission to greet the guests with a well-mannered sit. However, we cannot expect our dog to act in such a way when he is still not ready.
What we can do is work at our dog’s level and take baby steps until we get ready to execute the perfect plan. For example, we could call our guests before they arrive, advising them to bring treats. Then, we can put our dog on a leash, answer the door, and tell our guests to ask the dog to sit for treats.
Also, if we worry about inappropriate behavior, it might be a good idea to crate our dog or keep him on a leash throughout the whole visit. Bringing our dog for short sessions of treating/sitting with our visitors is another option.
Although these scenarios aren’t ideal, we should remember that they aren’t permanent either; they are important stages of the training process. After all, there is no point in struggling and getting frustrated while attempting to make our dog do things that he isn’t ready to do yet.
Careful planning
While our dog is still untrained, we may run into various challenges throughout the day. It’s important to think ahead and predict what those challenges might be. If our dog and we find ourselves in an uncomfortable situation, and neither of us knows what to do about it, we will inevitably start feeling frustrated. What’s more, if we start panicking, that will make things even worse.
So, we need to plan our day ahead: think about where we’re going, who and what we may run into, etc. Then, taking our dog’s current training level into consideration, we must think about what we can do in those situations.
For instance, if we have to take our dog to the vet, we need to consider a number of things before we even get out of the house. What might we encounter in the car, in the parking lot, in the waiting room, in the exam room, and so on? Do we have a plan of action? How will our dog react? What can he do? How can we react to our dog’s behavior?
In a crisis, some basic skills can make a big difference. For example, commands such as “Let’s go” and “Leave it”, or simply touching our dog or calling his name can be effective. Also, in order to maintain control, we should always have high value treats nearby. Check out our article on basic positive dog training techniques here: Positive Dog Training Basics
We need a specific plan of action for every possible scenario. Whatever happens, we need to be prepared to react appropriately. If our dog gets upset and starts barking at another dog in the parking lot, we can use the trained “Let’s go” and move our dog away, thus creating some space. Once we separate them, we can use some target training, as well as generous rewards, to keep our dog entertained and focused on us. Bringing a toy might work, too.